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Men's fantasy

Many men deem two women wrestling each other erotic. The reason is as hard to explain as other erotic preferences. Individual fantasies have an individual emphasis. There is no such thing as the typical catfight lover.
The only common denominator is an erotical preference for two women testing each other's strength.
It's hard for outsiders to relate to how this developes in a man. Even for the insider it's close to impossible to get down to the origin of his own fantasies.
Forcing explanations and motivations is subject to failure in most cases.
We should just accept this.
Erotic fantasies are a good thing and put a twist on our everyday routine. The owner of DWW pointed it down pretty well in a TV-show called "Wahre Liebe", so I'd like to quote him here: "You're on a train and see two women. All of a sudden you start to fantasize about who of them is the stronger one!"

These daydreams can be a wonderful gift, as long as you don't reduce yourself or your environment to them or even deny your personality with false shame.
Many humans have erotic dreams and fantasies. In general you can say, that women who test each other's strength have a leading part in our fantasies.

The only way you can have a problem with this is when you reduce your sexual life to it. Many fetishists can't get sexually aroused without their fetish. This can even lead to a situation in which you can't have a normal relationship. If you want to call our fantasy a fetish is up to the individual. To our knowledge, the area of "fetishism" is hard to pin down (no pun intended ;-) the translator) and the word "fetish" is usually applied to a lifeless object.

In our affection this association doesn't apply. Our Fantasies have a lot of facets. The phrase "catfight fan" usually is about someone who enjoys watching women fight. The word "catfight" is used for a lot of things in america, like describing a rivalry between two women. There are many variations of the so called "catfight". Some may associate this with two women pulling each other's hair and rolling on the floor grappling. There are men who like that kind of fight. From an ethical perspective this is also unobjectionable, 'cause it's all in the man's fantasy. This kind of fantasy has no place in real life. On the other hand, fights that take place in a frame of sport(wo)manship with rules have a place in real life. The three most popular variations that come to mind are wrestling, boxing and armwrestling. There are fans who prefer only one of these variations and can't relate to some or any of the others. This differs by the individual. Another thing that's strictly individual is that for one fan the women have to be pretty, i.e. he has to like them from an erotic point of view and for the next it's totally optional.

By now we only decribed the catfight-fan, the fan who deems it erotic to watch two women testing their strength. But ther is also the kind of fan who's keen on getting his feet wet by stepping on a mat and fighting a woman. These fans are called mixed-wrestlers.
Mixed wrestlers can also be catfight fans! Their motivation ranges from athletical comparison to domination fights. If he's a sportsman, he's looking for an even match or a superior woman. For domination figths, men look for women who just dominate them. There's no real test of strength there. Some men even want to dominate the woman. After all one can say, that our fantasy is also about sportive ambition in wrestling or fighting.
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